November 16, 6 Problems That Come With Dating A Broken Man The trials and errors of love can sure knock us around a bit and leave us feeling a little worse for wear! The problem is, if you are an overly generous loving woman who always gives above and beyond, you may find yourself in danger of dating a man who will unfortunately take more than his share. You end up giving more than you get back. The best thing to do is to set boundaries, emotionally as well as physically, that way you can have time to gather your thoughts, emotions and energy and focus on loving yourself as well. You think that you can fix him. Sometimes men need us to be the hero, which is great up until the point where we think we can heal or fix them ourselves! Yes we can definitely aid them in making progress and we can love them unconditionally at the stages they are at, but there has to be a point where you realise that you can only help someone so much before they need to learn to help themselves.